something nobody really talks about this time of year


Hi Reader,

Something happens this time of year that I don't think we talk about enough. The calendar shifts. Summer starts. Kids come home, or they don't. Plans change. Life rearranges itself again, and you find yourself standing in the middle of it thinking, okay, now what? Nothing is wrong exactly. It's just different.

That particular kind of still that settles in after a season ends, or a chapter closes, or the house gets a little bit louder or a little bit emptier than it was before. I know that feeling really well.

A few years ago I was sitting inside a season of loss and transition that I did not have the words for. My mom. My dog Molly. My boys leaving for college. It all hit at once, and I needed somewhere to put all of it. I didn't go looking for a purpose. I just needed an outlet.

So I started writing. Then I started wondering if writing could become something more. I took a course. I started learning how to build a blog from scratch, with zero experience, figuring it out one confusing step at a time. Here's what I didn't expect. I fell completely in love with it.

So much so, that time flew when I was working on it. It certainly didn't feel like "work", even though it was. It made me think, oh. So this is what people mean when they talk about finding something that's just theirs. Is it a roaring success yet?

Nope, not yet. But I show up for it every single day anyway, because it fills something that needed filling. That's what I think purpose actually feels like when you find it.

You might be looking for that too.

That's what this week's post is about. Not blogging specifically, but that feeling of longing for something that is just yours after so much has changed. What it looks like to follow that one small feeling, even when you have no idea where it leads.

If this kind of thought is sitting with you right now, I think this one will feel familiar. Read this week's post: How to Find Purpose When You Don't Know Who You Are Anymore

You don't have to have it figured out. You don't have to know what your thing is yet. You just have to be willing to notice what makes time disappear. What makes you forget to check your phone. What makes you feel, even for a little while, like yourself again.

That's not nothing. That's the beginning.

Have a great weekend,

Some links in this email may be affiliate links or point to my own products. That means I may earn a small commission or income—at no extra cost to you—if you choose to shop through them. Thank you for supporting this small space that helps support my family. It means so much.

Follow along with me...

nextchapterlivingwithlynn.com

PO Box 4646, Queensbury, NY 12804
Unsubscribe · Preferences

Next Chapter Living with Lynn

I'm Lynn, a midlife wife and mom of two, writing honestly about the real stuff: empty nest, aging parents, loss, change, and figuring out who you are now. Just real life, and moving forward from here. Grab my free guide, When A Season Ends, and get The Weekly Joy in your inbox after that.

Read more from Next Chapter Living with Lynn

Hi Reader, I took a picture of myself in my workout clothes last week. I meant it to be a "before" photo, to pull up later when things have changed. I was being optimistic about it. Then I looked at it and felt sad, which was not at all what I had planned. There's this idea that women our age let ourselves go, like we stop caring at some point along the way. That has not been my experience. I've been doing the same things I've always done. My body just changed the terms without telling me,...

Hi Reader, Last week I told you I would remain consistent, despite my mood or what's happening in my life. This week that's a little harder than I expected. Today I sit at my laptop with a view I have looked at with wonder for the last 45 years. Soon it will be someone else's view. It will always be in my heart, in my memories and dreams, but I somehow can't wrap my head around it. There is too much emotion involved. One thing is certain though. I am leaving this place with so much more than...

Hi Reader, It's been a couple weeks since I've sent my weekly note to you. There's something to be said about routine and consistency. It keeps you motivated and builds momentum. I've fallen out of that routine a bit this summer with good reason. Mix a few major life changes with summer in the pot and here we are. The reason I started writing and creating this blog remains the same. I was inspired by love and loss and always will be. I had a need to write about those experiences and wanted to...