before the weekend starts


Hi Reader,

Happy 4th of July weekend to you and yours.

This holiday always brings up a certain kind of feeling for me. Fireworks at night with kids in awe of every single one. Ice pops. Fruit salad. The small, specific traditions that somehow become the things you remember most. The moments that feel ordinary while they're happening and then turn into something you'd give anything to have back.

That's actually what this week's post is about, even though I wrote it about college drop off.

There's a moment I describe where your whole life with that child seems to flash before your eyes, right there in the dorm room. Infant. First steps. Fourth of July sparklers. And then suddenly they're ready to walk into the next part of their life without you. You're the only one who's not quite ready yet.

If that resonates with where you are this weekend, or where you've been, I think you'll want to read it.

Enjoy every minute of this one.

Have a great weekend,

P.S. Here's the post. How To Cope When Your Last Child Goes To College

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I'm Lynn, a midlife wife and mom of two, writing honestly about the real stuff: empty nest, aging parents, loss, change, and figuring out who you are now. Just real life, and moving forward from here. Grab my free guide, When A Season Ends, and get The Weekly Joy in your inbox after that.

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